Covenant Marriage


What Marriage is Supposed to Look Like

From the beginning, 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU’aH) designed marriage as a reflection of His own covenant nature—order, headship, and oneness. The study “The Creator’s House: What Marriage is Supposed to Look Like” restores the true meaning of marriage: not a contract of convenience, but a sacred covenant patterned after 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀔𐀉𐀏 (Yahusha) and His people. In a world that has traded divine order for self-will, this teaching calls us back to the blueprint of the Creator’s house, where man leads in righteousness and woman builds through submission, wisdom, and strength.

Watch the Full Study Below
(“The Creator’s House: What Marriage is Supposed to Look Like”)

Key Takeaways from the Study

  • Marriage is a covenant, not a contract—𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU'aH) Himself joined man and woman as one flesh in His presence (Barashiyth 2:24).
  • The husband represents Yahusha’s headship—He is called to love, lead, and lay down his life in service, mirroring Yahusha’s example (Ephesians 5:25–28).
  • The wife is the keeper of the house—She strengthens her home through obedience, wisdom, and reverence, embodying the virtuous woman (Proverbs 31:10–12).
  • True submission is strength under order—It is not weakness, but the divine structure through which peace, fruitfulness, and honor flow (1 Kepha 3:1–4).
  • Unity in covenant brings fruitfulness—When both husband and wife walk in obedience to Torah, their house becomes a dwelling for 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU'aH)’s esteem (Tahilliym 127:1).
  • Marriage mirrors redemption—Just as Yahusha redeems and restores His Bride, so is every marriage meant to reflect that everlasting covenant of love and obedience (Ma’asah 20:28).
  • Rebellion against divine order brings ruin—When roles are reversed or independence replaces submission, chaos enters the house, and the covenant loses its light (YashaYAHU 3:12).
  • The Creator’s house thrives in consecration—A marriage dedicated to 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU'aH) becomes the foundation for generations walking in truth and righteousness (Dabariym 6:6–7).

Call to Action

Return to the Creator’s order. Watch the full teaching and rebuild your house in alignment with 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU'aH))’s eternal pattern for marriage—one of love, obedience, and covenant unity.

Marrying the Other Nations

Covenant Allegiance and Marriage

The Scripture is consistent and deliberate in how it addresses marriage with those from other nations, and it never frames the issue as bloodline, appearance, or place of birth. The concern is always allegiance. When the Word warns against marrying “strange” or “foreign” women, it defines the danger clearly: they served strange or foreign mighty ones. The prohibition was never racial. It was covenantal. Time to unlearn the lies and walk in the truth.

SECTION ONEβ€”COVENANT STANDARD: ALLEGIANCE, NOT ORIGIN

From the beginning, 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU'aH) established that His people were to be distinct in worship and obedience. In Deuteronomy 7:3–4, the command not to intermarry is immediately followed by the reason, “for they will turn your son away from following Me, to serve other mighty ones” (Deuteronomy 7:4). The offense is not marriage itself, but the turning away of the heart. Where allegiance is divided, covenant is broken. Where allegiance is unified, covenant stands.

This distinction is critical, because Scripture itself preserves righteous marriages with women from other nations who abandoned their former mighty ones and fully joined themselves to 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄. Ruth stands as the clearest witness of this truth. She was a Moabitess by birth, from a people often cited in discussions of separation, yet the Word never condemns her marriage. Instead, it honors her.

Ruth’s declaration to Naomi was not emotional rhetoric. “Your people shall be my people, and your Aluah my Aluah” was a covenant statement (Ruth 1:16). She renounced her former identity, her former mighty ones, and her former loyalties. From that moment forward, Ruth was no longer “strange” in the sense Scripture condemns. She dwelt among Yahudah, walked in obedience, and raised covenant seed. Her marriage to Boaz was lawful, righteous, and honored by 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 Himself, producing the lineage of Dawid. If foreign birth were the issue, Ruth’s place in the genealogy would be impossible. Instead, it is preserved intentionally to reveal the heart of the law.

This same standard appears again in the Torah itself through the life of Moshah, and then again in the prophetic restoration. Moshah married Tzipporah, a Midyanite woman, the daughter of a Midyanite leader outside the tribes (Exodus 2:21). Scripture never condemns this marriage. Instead, it is affirmed. Tzipporah demonstrates covenant alignment when she circumcises their son, showing awareness, obedience, and submission to the command of 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (Exodus 4:24–26). Later, when Moshah is spoken against because of the Cushite woman he had taken, 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 Himself intervenes, rebuking those who opposed the marriage rather than Moshah (Numbers 12:1–9). The text makes clear that the issue was never the woman’s origin, but the heart and covenant position. Moshah, the lawgiver, would not be upheld by 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 while living in open violation of His own instruction. His marriage stands as further proof that allegiance, not ethnicity, defines what is lawful.

This same standard appears again in the prophetic restoration. In YahazqAL (Ezekiel) 47:21–23, 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 speaks of the future division of the land and explicitly commands that sojourners who dwell among the people and bring forth children among them are to receive inheritance within the tribes (YahazqAL (Ezekiel) 47:22–23). Land inheritance is not symbolic language. It is covenant confirmation. 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 does not grant inheritance to those He rejects. This passage proves that covenant inclusion is based on dwelling, obedience, and alignment, not origin.

SECTION TWOβ€”MISAPPLIED SEPARATION AND RESTORED UNDERSTANDING

Ezra’s reform must be understood within this framework. The men in Ezra’s day did not act in ignorance. By their own admission, they knew who they were, they knew the command, and they knew the identity of the women they married. Ezra names the specific nations involved, the same nations repeatedly warned against because of their idolatry (Ezra 9:1–2). Ezra 10 records a confession of trespass, not confusion (Ezra 10:2). These women had not abandoned their mighty ones, and the children were being raised outside covenant obedience. The separation was corrective and situational, not a universal law applied to all marriages with women of other nations.

This distinction matters today. Ezra’s generation had direct instruction, preserved lineage awareness, active priesthood, and restored Torah teaching. Their violation was against known light. Many today were born into enforced ignorance, stripped of identity, cut off from instruction, and raised under false names and systems. Scripture itself speaks of a time when the people would forget who they are and later be taught again by 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄. Accountability is always measured by revealed knowledge.

Throughout Scripture, the pattern never changes. This is why the command is not selective or ethnic, but universal. Sha’ul writes plainly that 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 “now commands all mankind everywhere to repent,” because ignorance was once overlooked, but accountability comes with revealed truth (Acts 17:30). Repentance is the dividing line. Those who turn are restored and aligned; those who refuse remain hardened. Covenant separation is never about excluding repentant people, but about confronting unrepented rebellion.

This truth also exposes how many have been blinded by the social construction of the illusion of race. Hatred toward others is often self-justified under the guise of false righteousness, lineage, or supposed purity, yet Scripture never authorizes such hostility. That blindness is not accidental. It is rooted in unrepented sin. When the heart refuses correction, it seeks an external enemy to blame, and race becomes a convenient fiction to defend inward rebellion. Instead of turning from pride, bitterness, envy, and lawlessness, many project their guilt outward and weaponize identity. This is why allegiance, not appearance, has always been the dividing line in Scripture. Those who truly turn toward 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 are humbled, teachable, and reconciled, while those who cling to sin harden themselves and use false distinctions to justify separation that the Word never commands. “Strange women” are strange because they are strange in worship, strange in covenant loyalty, and strange in obedience. When that strangeness is removed through repentance and alignment, the barrier no longer exists. Ruth proves this. Rahab proves this. Tzipporah proves this. The prophets confirm this. YahazqAL seals it with land inheritance.

SECTION THREEβ€”FINAL WITNESS, VITAL TRUTHS, AND SCRIPTURE SETTLED

The truth is simple and unmovable. Marriage is forbidden when it binds the people of 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 to foreign mighty ones. Marriage is permitted, honored, and barak when allegiance is given fully to 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄, regardless of origin. Covenant has always been about who you serve.

This matter is not left to opinion or emotion. Scripture commands that truth is to be established by witnesses, not by isolated arguments. “By the mouth of two or three witnesses every matter shall be established” (Deuteronomy 19:15; (MatithhYAHU (Matthew) 18:16). In this matter, 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 has provided more than sufficient witness.

Moshah stands as one witness. He married outside the bloodline, yet his marriage was upheld, defended, and affirmed by 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 Himself. This proves that covenant obedience is not confined to lineage.

Ruth stands as the second witness. She married into the bloodline after abandoning her former allegiance and fully joining herself to the people and the covenant. This proves that covenant inclusion is granted through allegiance, not birth.

Together, Moshah and Ruth establish the matter completely. One shows covenant faithfulness entering from outside; the other shows covenant faithfulness being received within. The witnesses agree, and the Word is settled.

Ruth is not an exception to the law. She is the law lived out correctly.

VITAL COVENANT TRUTHS:

The issue is allegiance, not ancestry. Scripture never defines “strange” by bloodline, but by worship, obedience, and covenant loyalty.

Marriage becomes unlawful only when it binds covenant people to foreign mighty ones. Where the heart is turned away, covenant is violated.

Covenant alignment removes strangeness. When allegiance changes, status changes.

Land inheritance proves covenant acceptance. 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 does not grant inheritance to those He rejects.

Ezra addressed known rebellion, not ignorance. His reform cannot be weaponized against those coming into restored knowledge.

Hatred rooted in race is a symptom of unrepented sin. Scripture exposes it as a defense mechanism for inward rebellion, not righteousness.

 


 

THE TWO MOST IMPORTANT SCRIPTURES, SPOKEN PLAINLY:

Deuteronomy 7:4— “For they will turn your son away from following Me, to serve other mighty ones; so the displeasure of 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 shall be kindled against you, and He shall destroy you quickly.”

This passage defines the reason for separation. The danger is not marriage itself, but the turning away of the heart from covenant obedience.

Ruth 1:16— “Do not urge me to leave you or to turn back from following after you. For wherever you go, I go; and wherever you lodge, I lodge; your people are my people, and your Aluah is my Aluah.”

This declaration establishes covenant transfer. Ruth abandons former allegiance and fully joins herself to the people and the AL'uah of the covenant.

These two passages, read together, settle the matter without contradiction. One warns against divided allegiance; the other demonstrates unified allegiance. Scripture does not conflict with itself—it reveals the same standard lived out across generations.


The study: Marrying the other Nations?

In a world long divided by deception, the 1992 Oprah segment featuring Jane Elliot’s Blue Eyes vs Brown Eyes experiment exposed how quickly mankind learns prejudice—and how easily hearts can be taught to hate. But 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU’aH) calls His people to unlearn these lies and walk in truth. This study breaks down the origins of racial deception, Torah’s commandments on covenant purity, and the eternal pattern of redemption from Ruth to 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀔𐀉𐀏 (Yahusha).

Watch the Full Study Below
(“Marrying the Other Nations—What the Scriptures Actually Say”)

Key Takeaways from the Study

  • Racism is a taught deception—It began with false divisions of mankind, not with Torah. Humanity was never divided by 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU'aH) according to skin, but by obedience to His Word (Dabariym 32:8).
  • Covenant boundaries were spiritual, not racial—𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU'aH) forbade marriage with nations that practiced idolatry, immorality, and child sacrifice (Dabariym 7:1–4).
  • Ruth the Moabitess was redeemed—Though from a forbidden nation, Ruth left her idols, clung to Naomi, and was grafted into the house of Yashar’al through obedience (Ruth 1:16).
  • Boaz the kinsman redeemer—His covenant with Ruth foreshadowed 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀔𐀉𐀏 (Yahusha), the Redeemer who restores all who come in repentance (Ruth 4:9–10).
  • 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU'aH) shows no partiality—Every nation that fears Him and works righteousness is accepted (Ma’asah 10:34–35).
  • The Torah is one law for all who dwell in His house—“One ordinance shall be for you and for the stranger who sojourns with you” (Bamidbar 15:15–16).
  • Belief and obedience define the true house—Not lineage or race, but those who walk in His commandments and truth (1 Yahuchanan 1:5–7).
  • All nations are invited into redemption—Through the seed of Abraham, 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU'aH) promised that all nations of the earth will be barak (blessed) (Barashiyth 22:18).

Call to Action

Watch the full study to uncover the truth behind racial deception and learn what 𐀉𐀄𐀅𐀄 (YaHU'aH) truly commands about marriage, covenant, and redemption.